TWIN FLAMES - BEYOND SURRENDER THERE IS RADIANCE, ILLUMINATION & HARMONY

The 8 Stages of Twin Flame Alchemy are: INITATION INTO THE PATH OF THE FLAME - THE BUBBLE LOVE PHASE THE POWER STRUGGLES - DOWN INTO THE UNDERWORLD - EGO WARS SEPARATION - A DISCONNECTION - DOESN'T HAVE TO BE PHYSICAL SURRENDER - RELINQUISHING EGOIC PATTERNS, HEALING ADDICTIONS RADIANCE - INCREASING VITALITY, CONNECTIVITY, LUCIDITY ILLUMINATION - RESTORING DIVINE BLUEPRINT AND INNATE WISDOM CODES HARMONY - HARMONIZING THE UNION FROM WITHIN

Once the 7th stage is completed, like the oroborous biting its tail into infinity, the process of alchemy begins again, however this time the Initiates of the flame will be more skilled and understand what is going on and navigate the process more skillfully, yet the process of alchemy is never easy, always challenging and at times very, very painful. As seen in the artwork above, The Sun is in a triangle representing Trinity Consciousness which is necessary to complete the process of alchemy, The union of masculine and feminine in Hieros Gamos with the Divine residing in the space between them, without the Divine connection at the center, the initiates of the flame falls from grace and upholding the union and even connection will be futile and the connection might come to an end, it takes effort and grace to maintain connection through first and foremost being connected to the self, to higher self and Source.

None of which can be taken for granted and must be a daily practice of spiritual accountability of mind, body and spirit. We don't find a lot of material in the spiritual community past the surrender stage of twin flame alchemy as many initiates of the flame get stuck and find themselves lost in longing, in self-pity, in the attachment to outcome, the attachment to their respective partner in a love addiction or love avoidance i.e. CHASING and RUNNING, or through lack of connection to higher self and not listening to spirit and the universe, they get lost in the matrix, lost in culture with false cultural ambition implants, but especially drug culture, all of which disconnects us from our divine blueprint and our higher self intelligence. The connection to the twin flame also cut. Yes, it can happen! As you may have noticed I do not share the common cosmopolitan narrative of the twin flames, I have a very unique experiential comprehension of this process, supported more and more by members of our community and other established and profiled twin flame teachers from before the trend and mainstream took over the community with its many false teachers and scam artists. Without mentioning any names, most should be aware of these by now.

There are endless pitfalls to fall into on the twin flame journey, the false teachers being the least of these, most of the sabotage comes from within the initiates themselves and their respective bloodlines. Their own ancestral patterns, cultural programs, their templates and habits, addictions, are simply enough to make anyone inept at navigating something as intense and challenging as a Sacred Union. To become an adept initate of the flame takes a lot more than simply staying together in a relationship template with Love Programming attachments, it takes lucidity, creativity, awareness and comprehension of the alchemical processes that they find themselves shaped and molded by in perpetual transformation and metamorphosis. They are continuously altered by the Union Energy, the third energy, their Code activations and Kundalini Awakening Process, the real deal Kundalini activations, not the new age "twirl your hands around a recipient" kind we see performed in the community, which screams inauthenticity to those of us who find ourselves to be True Initiates Of The Flame. So between the mental, emotional and physical distortions they have to heal and clear and the vast amount of bullshit in the new age industry, the "twin flames" are not only challenged, but disrupted, attacked and derailed more than they are able to navigate their union in the making into Radiance, Illumination and Harmony. This is why the information is not there, It simply isn't being experienced by most, as they don't make it there, they are drowning in the depths of their humanity, the debris of their belief systems, addictions, bad habits and new age fluff, not able to swim to shore, heal themselves and heal their union. That is the sad reality.

After their Initation Into The Path Of The Flame has commmenced and once The Bubble Love Phase ends and they enter The Power Struggle with its egoic warfare, making each other the enemy, they will step into Separation with its disconnection from the divine, from the higher self and their partner, they will experience the most painful parts of the process, that in turn will turn on their soul power, their inner light and make them beacons, this is what we will focus on in this article, as I see little information out there that is experiential and factual out there. Once they accept their own private hell, once they surrender to the process and allow it to unfold naturally, the signs and synchronicity from higher self returns and the connection to higher self, to source is healed and stronger than ever. As the path unfolds, the process becomes evident and we being to move into Radiance, shining brighter than ever before, with increased consciousness, awareness, presence, creativity, inspiration, joi de vivre and vitality, this stage of the process was actually my personal favorite, if I had known all the beauty to come, I would have spent more time in solitude and invested even more time and energy into myself, my creativity, my writing and my music than I did. I was becoming more of myself than I had ever been able to embody, I was being made a new and improved version of myself, more connected to my innate wisdom, the mysteries of the universe, the mystical, the divine and in turn my writing blossomed, my creativity exploded and I experienced a spiritual puberty that resulted in intense sexual energy and increased palpable charisma unlike anything I have ever experienced. I was on fire! However, all my belief systems were to be challenged, my perception of reality was about to change, as I experienced A Second Soul Connection...Was it another Twin Flame???

My entire collection of articles, videos and everything I had been sharing was no longer valid, as I had experienced something completely out of alignment with the narrative, with my belief systems and my previous experiences. My mentor Mel Brand from Gold Ray Twin Flames however had been experiencing the same with many of his real deal twin flame clients and made a couple of videos at the time explaining what I was experiencing, I had no choice but to take down my website, delete all my articles and videos, I could not stand by the information anymore. I was experiencing Multidimensional Consciousness, I was experiencing another bubble love phase, with kundalini activations again, with astral connection and could not deny the similar experience.

We were disrupted and not able to experience much of the connection however, but it didn't take long before another showed up, just like Mel had been saying, you will keep experiencing this until you get it right Ulf. Much like most of the information he provided over the years, he was right, right about everything, I kept experiencing this from 2016 to 2019, I found many more of my so called Soul Monad. I experienced INTENSE synchronicities, signs and proof of alignment EVERY TIME. All of them could have become a Twin Flame Union had we proceeded through the stages together successfully, but I was not mature enough, not refined enough and so of course neither were they, and so we were not able to hold and contain the entirety of one another, which always results in separation and sometimes end of the connection. Every time equally as painful, but each time I embraced the end more and more as I knew another would enter the field, and they did...They were all branches of the same tree, another multidimensional avatar of the soul, a soul to soul connection with everything that entails and each one taught me so much about who I am, who I can be and who I want to be. Anything you are experiencing can be seen as being in service to you, if you let it.

They were all part of my ILLUMINATION, assisting me in developing my comprehension of the mystery that is The Twin Flame Journey, I understood that this is a template and I can experience this template with another Graduate Soul, another Initiate Of The Flame and this experience is bigger than all of us involved, bigger than any two in union and the experience must commence, the process must unfold as we are part of something bigger than we could ever imagine, a purpose, a mission if you will...And it is this mission that seems to get lost in most of the new age fluff, the true purpose of the two Graduate Souls coming together. This will become evident to those who find themselves in the stage of Illumination if it didn't present itself in Soul Codes activated in the initations and the bubble love phase, which it did for me, but they were misinterpreted through the filters of new age spirituality, the twin flame belief system and even religion and ideas of love and relationship.

Once I experienced all these connections and my entire monad and called in the one to be able to hold all of me, the one that would fit everything I wanted to experience, it became clear to me just how much we are the writers of our own stars and how we can cocreate this union.

It is not at all how the new age community presents it, most all of the teachers have it all wrong, but as they subscribe to the belief systems I once did, their experiences and information reflects that and it is hard to let go off a narrative one has held on to so tightly for so long and which could crush your business, make you the laughing stock of the community and be ridiculed for "being wrong" or a twin flame runner, a fraud, a scam artist or whatever it is their filters and perceptions label you. But not being in integrity to the soul, to self and this path is much worse than any amount of scrutiny anyone else could ever bring. More than love, more than relationships, more than twin flames, soul mates and all that, THIS IS ALCHEMY. That is the basis of this connection. And so there is a vast body of work out there to study, to dive into and understand which will pry your eyes wide open to the most spectacular mysteries of our time, the mystical union with the divine.

In the illumination stage I found myself in union with the divine unlike ever before, I felt, saw and heard the universe speak to me even more directly than it had in my "psychosis". It was as if I had a direct line to the divine and we were on the phone 24/7 being enlightened on all the matters I pondered from life, love, death, in between and it only stopped because I stopped asking questions, I became satisifed, satiated with answers and learned how to answer my own questions in a way that left me as what I can only label An Oracle, I don't ask angels, archangels or a Guru for information, I go straight to source. No boxes, no filters, no belief systems, no dogma, no doctrines, nothing outside of self and source and this is the state of TRUE ILLUMINATION. You no longer subscribe to what most of the spiritual community subscribes to as you have a direct line to source intelligence, there is nothing else. There are no boxes you fit into anymore, you will not relate to most of the spiritual community, because 90% of the things they talk about, refer to, subscribe to has no relevance to your experience. If you thought the spiritual awakening experience was lonely before, this is where you will be proven wrong, but you will have something that most of them do not as well, you will be a true living mystic, a liberated person, a spiritually sovereign human being with a mind resting in the infinite pools of eternity. All these stages are however experienced slightly different for everyone, all depending on how much of their ideas of self, belief systems of all kinds they are willing and able to let go off and liberate themselves and experience Cosmic Consciousness.

After the beautiful stage of Illumination, Harmonization awaits and as with all of the stages of alchemy, it begins within and then you experience it externally. There is no harmony in your Sacred Union until you seek and experience Harmony within. You have to come to harmony with all of existence, accept the challenge of existence, accept the cards you have been dealt and accept what you need to do in order to get to where you want to go, on your own, together as one, and be okay with whatever outcome of the many outcomes available to you and trust utterly and completely in life, source, higher self and yourself to be able to cocreate that together. The greatest challenge beyond yourself, will be the other one and all that is needed to perfectly interlace, fit together and weave together as one, into the masterpiece that you could be experiencing. But by now you should be able to Navigate the energies, the challenges, Communicate peacefully enough to accomodate one another and Negotiate a beneficial outcome for everyone involved and Compromise and support one another in the endavour of both as a unit, so that it comes to fruition as Mel Brand and Nicole Hibbs taught us all. It is not like this stage does not take immense amount of work as well, it most certainly has for us and anyone else I know who has reached this stage of The Twin Flame Alchemy, which in true aren't overwhelmingly many, few are able to come to Harmony due to the challenges posed to them, discussed in this article and the entirety of my work. If you make it here, be sure to share how with us in the comments, every union is different and I love interacting with other Real Deal "Twin Flames" as it is still very rare and the ones who manage to stay together in union for years are even more rare. So please share, it could serve someone else and maybe your story will ignite them and motivate them to make the neccessary moves to Harmonize their union.

Thank you for your support of my work over the years, I will be writing, making videos and supporting my community for as long as I am alive. This is my Soul Mission. This is my Divine Blueprint at work. And I am very grateful to anyone who has brought me a piece of the puzzle, all the soul connections I have experienced and my mentors and guides. But more than anything I am deeply grateful and forever in service to my beloved wife Mary, without whome I would not be able to experience the evolution of this experience, Thank you my love. If you want help with your unique journey, book a session with me,

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Ulf & Mary Haukenes-Grey